NEVER TO WORRY

I'm not perfect, I'm FAR from perfect.
But I realized a few things as I grow up. And this is one of them.

Some weekends ago, when I went to go to a mall on Saturday morning, I saw bunch of girls wearing their school uniforms waiting outside the mall. Because the rules are like, no student is allowed inside the mall before 11 or something. And I used to be like them, queuing outside the mall when went home superearly from school. It was annoying, waiting outside like that.
But that was 5 years ago. Now I can walk inside right after it opens, because I'm no longer wearing uniforms, because I'm no longer a student. And I can look at the teenage-me and laugh at her.
And suddenly I realized, that no bad thing will stay forever.
That's only a simple example, really. But you can extend your mind and think wider.
Like, when you were a kid you desperately want to buy shoes you like really much but your parents didn't let you.
It's okay. Because there will be time when you have your own money and you don't need anyone permissions to buy a pair of shoes, or even a set of jewellery.
But you need to wait patiently, and work hard, of course.

Everything has their own times. I believe in that.
So don't worry about it.
Don't worry about getting yelled at because you're wrong.
There will be time when you yell at a person because they got your instructions wrong.
Don't worry about obeying your parents even you don't like it.
There will be time when you're the parents and you wish SO BAD that your kids will obey you.
Don't worry about getting lost.
There will be time when you will be found.
Don't worry about getting hurt over and over again.
There will be time when you're the one who hurt people, then you'll learn.

That no matter how bad we are feeling now, the things are going to be okay later.
The sadness will be gone, the difficulty will be passed, the tears will be wiped, the sweats will come dry.
There will come a day when we look back and remember the hard times, and then we can laugh at it.
We can laugh because we passed them, we survived them, we're getting stronger because of them.
Hard times can make us bitter or stronger, but how do we know which one we'll be?
By choosing it.
Remember, very very dearly.
No one can make you angry unless you decide to be angry.
No one can make you happy unless you decide to be happy.
Our good or bad day is not because of people make them, it's because of ourselves.