THANK GOD IT'S...

I once was that kind of person who lives for the weekend. Loathe Mondays. And only be thankful when it's Friday.

Then I thought, how unlucky I am if I spend my whole productive life being that kind of person.

I don't want it.

I want to be a person who lives everyday. Who doesn't hate Monday. Who enjoys the working days, even maybe can't be as much as the weekends. Who doesn't wait until Friday to have fun.

Weekend has only two days a week while weekdays has five days a week. Roughly, we will only live for 30% of our lives if we only live for the weekend.

How sad is that life?

To always enjoy life is not easy.
Even imagining it is not easy.
But we can do it if we focus on the positive things, doesn't matter how small it is.

When you woke up late then stuck in a heavy traffic, you almost can't see a positive thing. But if you can't do anything about it, then don't stress it.

Okay, I know some people are like to stress over things. Over small things. Over things they don't have a power on.

Me too.

But now I'm trying to stress only when I can do something about it.
I stress when I'm late and I feel like I don't walk fast enough. Then I run.
I stress when I have many things to do. But try to cut it off when it's finished.
Even though I didn't do well enough. Or feel like I didn't do well.
But once it's finished, my stress won't help anything.
I have realized that stressing over something that happened in the past won't change the result. Even though sometimes, not stressing about things feel wrong. And if the result is not well, it's because we don't stress enough about it.

Believe me, I know that feeling.

It needs process.
But I believe we can get there eventually.

Not stressing about things.
Always enjoy our days.
Trying to see the positive on everything.

But, like someone once said:
One day or day one, you decide